In order to improve relationships, many people have increasingly
turned to Feng Shui remedies hoping to find a solution for their
woes.
The Feng Shui used on this website is the Eight Mansion (Pa-Kua)
School under the Xuan Kong System. For more information on this,
and for more basics on Feng Shui, do visit our Feng
Shui page.
In order for you to improve relationships, you will need to know
your Nien Yin - or personal relationship - direction. This is the
Pa-Kua direction that affects your love life. If you haven't already
done so, use Dragon
Gate's Kua Calculator to find your Nien Yin direction.
Sleeping Position
The easiest thing you can do to activate your personal relationships
is to sleep with your head pointing towards your Nien Yin direction.
For couples, it is recommended that you sleep in a bedroom located
in the female's Nien Yin corner of the house, while you sleep with
both your heads pointing towards the male's Nien Yin direction.
In addition, be careful not to sleep under any overhead beams, as
doing so is said to put pressure on your love life.
Feng Shui Figurine Placement
Another method to activate your Nien Yin corner and improve relationships
is to place Feng Shui remedies and figurines in your Nien Yin corner.
You can place these figurines in the Nien Yin corner of your bedroom,
house or even your office.
The most popular of the relationship-enhancing
Feng Shui remedies is the humble mandarin duck. Mandarin ducks mate
for life and will die of loneliness if separated from their chosen
mate. These qualities are the best reflection of true love, and
will reflect on those who use mandarin ducks in their Nien Yin corners.
Besides the mandarin duck, another remedy that can improve relationships
is the rose quartz crystal. Rose quartz, also popularly known as
the "love stone", is ideal for love and relationships
due to its ability to stimulate passion, energy and confidence.
These crystals should also be placed in the Nien Yin corner of your
room or house.
Carry Feng Shui With You
You can also carry these relationship-healing properties with you
wherever you go by either wearing mandarin duck or rose quartz necklaces,
or by placing such tokens in your wallet or handbag.
If you want to see examples of mandarin duck and rose quartz figurines,
you can visit our figurines page. Or
you can visit
Dragon Gate's catalog directly to view a whole list of Feng
Shui remedies.
BaZi Analysis
If
you are interested in looking at other methods to improve relationships
and marriages, you might want to consider using the BaZi techniques.
BaZi (pronounced Par Zhee) is not related to normal Feng Shui remedies.
It is a form of Chinese astrology and divination, and is able to
plot the course of your life using your birthdate.
Using BaZi, your strengths and weaknesses can be revealed, and you
will know when your luck and prosperity cycles will peak and drop,
including those crucial "clashing" points when significant
changes will occur in your life. You can also find out your compatibility
and relationship with your family as well as potential spouses.
There are various aspects of your life that can be analyzed using
BaZi, including health, financial prosperity and relationships.
For relationships, you can click here to read more about the BaZi
Relationship Analysis Report at Dragon Gate, and use the information
provided in the report to improve relationships and create long-lasting
love.
If you want to look at the various Mandarin Duck figurines, you
can click here. Or you can visit
Dragon Gate directly for a whole list of Feng Shui remedies
and products. For those of you who are curious, there is also a
Mandarin Duck tao sexual position described in the Kama
Sutra!
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